Quite the week this week. There was a lot of stuff going on that stayed smothered until the very end and made this seem like an easy week for those not directly involved. Every Saturday night, though, we have what's called say-so, when we all get together and watch the videos of the previous week and spend time talking about what impacted us most. This week's say-so was the most powerful of the summer.
But first, work site updates. This week was crazy with how much we were trying to get done. we had a roof-over on the house of e tribal elder named Harrison, a roof-over and a carport to paint at the home of the tribe's coffin builder Ray, a bathroom to finish at Leslie's house, and exterior paint job at the Adams' home, two walls to frame at the Dempsen's, the youth working at the home of another elder named Iola and painting a couple rooms at the Adams' house, and a crew building decks at Camp Chaparral. Yes, 8 sites in a week, 6 for the team alone. I was on the roof-over at Harrison's home, and the crew Beth and I were leading absolutely flew. we were finished by 1:30 on Wednesday, quite a feat when the crew leaders are trying to slow the crew down so we can stay out in the community longer. The Adams' house was done by around lunchtime on Friday, Leslie's house was a one-and-a-half day job, the Dempsens' walls were done by the same crew as Leslie's floors, Ray's shop and carport took right up until the end of the workday on Friday, but they got finished. Iola's woodshed was completed Friday morning, and almost two cords of wood stacked by the end of the workday that afternoon. oh, I forgot to mention, there was a team in Warm Springs this week too. They painted the Early childhood learning center.One of the most powerful things about the say-so was the effect kids' club had on people this week. as a bit of background, there are two separate locations where we hold kids' club. Totus Park in White Swan is the original location, and in the last couple years, the Sacred Road has started another in Adams View Park near Harrah. The people who have been working with Sacred road a long time have incredible relationships with the kids at Totus. They have been playing and talking with some of the kids there for five or six years, and seen kids who can barely toddle grow up. Because of the relative newness of the Adams View location, there are not those deep relationships (for the most part.) What this leads to is separation anxiety when someone moves, whether that someone is a kid or a staff member. Those most impactful stories this week came from the staff members who have historically worked at Totus, but this week were at Adams View. Stories of feeling ripped in two, because of how much they love the kids at both locations. Stories of realizing that they were trying to avoid getting really attached to the kids at one place because they felt they belonged at the other and failing because the kids were so desperate for love.
That desperation is what really breaks your heart. You see the kids that so need love, but are too afraid to get involved. They hang back at the edges of kids club and play a few games, but it will be a long time and take a lot of coaxing before they're able to trust.
prayer requests for this week: a sense of peace as we the interns prepare to go back into the rest of the world. After the next team week, we're done for the summer. Pray for the transition for the full time staff as well, as they go from a state of constant motion to relative solitude as the summer staff leaves. Pray for the kids at kids' club as the summer comes to an end and they face 9 months of limited contact with the 'Church People' they love to play with and who love to play with them. the ministry does not stop at the end of the summer, but the amount of work that can be done is so much less without the summer staff that it slows immensely.